He stood me up!
Last night the guy whom I met online and have been seeing for a while stood me up. He said he would arrive at 8pm but never showed up. This is not the first time I have been stood up by him. At 9:30, I finally gave up waiting and left the house. Before leaving, I sent him an angry email telling him how hurt I felt. I returned home and found no messages on the machine and no email response. I don't think I am unreasonable to expect a phone call if plans change?
Today I received his annoyed response that turned the blame onto me! He said I was behaving neurotic, that he thought our relationship was stronger than that. This really confuses me, but instead of feeling angry, I feel really low. I'd like him to apologize, but I also want things back the way they were before this all happened. Any advice? Jenny
Jenny, he's the schmuck, not you. He's the one who has stood you up yet again, with no excuse or apology. The fact that he's turned the blame back on you, is further proof of his inconsiderate nature and lack of relationship maturity.
Do you really want to be involved with someone who, rather than owning up to his mistakes, has the nerve to make the person he hurt feel in the wrong?
You can never change what you are prepared to tolerate!
Yes, he should apologize, but even if he does, do you really want things to go back to the way they were? Do you think you can ever trust him? Do you really want to be at the emotional mercy of someone who is unreliable and rather uncaring?
In my opinion, he does not deserve to be your boyfriend.
The Danger of Needy Relationships ...
At first, it is wonderful and reassuring to be needed, but eventually a needy relationship becomes clingy, jealous and stifling.
Try to give up needing anything in your life .. particularly a relationship, as there is never enough of what we need.
Needing something is actually a command to your subconscious that you don't deserve it ...
... and that's not true is it?
Island Dreams
Another question you might ask yourself to ascertain if a person is your soulmate is:
"Could I be marooned on a remote island with this person?"
Sometimes we can be dazzled by the material wealth or beauty of a potential partner, falling in love with their “image” instead of them as a person. What would they be like without that car? Would you still adore this person even if they were penniless, overweight or old?
Imagine if there was no other entertainment in the whole world other than this person ... would they be enough?
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